Blue v. Red, spouse v. spouse

Regardless of which way today's election goes it will be historical. If the Democrats win the White House, the first African-American will become president of the United States. If the Republicans take it, the first woman will become vice president.

Of course, among friends and work colleagues, there can be varying political views. But what happens when the political differences are between you and the person who sleeps on the pillow next to you?

There can be extremely fundamental differences between spouses - one might be pro-choice, one might be in favor of smaller government. I've read postings from people that say they simply can't discuss politics with their significant other because it can result in a knock-down, drag-out fight. I've read others that said they wouldn't have married their spouse if they were of a different political persuasion.

In my (humble) opinion, differences in politics are like any difference in view you may have with the person you love. One to be discussed, reasonably. You will never agree with your spouse 100 percent of the time on every issue - regardless of it involves politics. However, I see no reason why two intelligent adults can't sit down and reasonably discuss a topic that is of importance to one or both parties. Even if there is disagreement, each party should respect the other's point of view.

Maybe I have too simplistic of a view, but it just seems plain silly to me if spouses (unreasonably) fight over politics. Regardless of our difference in views, I would still like to wake up with my significant other smiling at me.